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Stay At Home Girlfriend

I went to Marshall’s/HomeGoods and racked up a bill over $1k. I bought lots of “Theory” clothing. (side note: Theory is a very nice designer brand for sugar babies. Classic. Simple. Classy. Timeless.)

The young cashier was like

Him: Wow what’s your job, if you don’t mind me asking? How can you afford all this?

*Rude*

Me: I actually just quit my job. Today is my first day off!

Him: What’re you going to do now?

Me: Stay at home girlfriend.

I love my life.

Side note #1: Sugaring (and escorting) has made me realize- I don’t hate all men. Just all men under 50. My sugar daddy treats me like a queen. Yesterday I was like “I’m such a bad cook, I really need to learn!” Later that day he’s like “baby, I signed us up for this cooking class in Sonoma”

Younger men do NOT deserve me.

Side note #2: I went to see a therapist for the first time today. She told me one of her clients married the escort he was seeing. Inspiring AF.

sortagolddigger

What SBs Often Forget About SDs

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I think many of us forget that SDs literally sacrifice nothing in the sugar bowl. Don’t let the money and gifts fool you. SDs get a hot girl on their arm (arm candy), get fucked regularly (intimacy), companionship and an opportunity to feel young again (Sugar Currency: what SBs offer SDs). There are no downsides on their end. The SBs sacrifice their time, in many cases, vaginas, energy and dignity (it’s not easy to go out in the world when you’re with a man 50 years your senior) in the bowl. Think about it: if I want an allowance of $6000 from a man worth $50 million, I’m not even making a dent in his fortune so it’s not like he’s feeling a huge difference. A rich guy giving a girl a nice allowance is no different from me giving a homeless man $5: it’s no big deal because I can afford it. Don’t let these men guilt you or trick you into believing that you should feel guilty about asking for what you want as if they are spending their last dollar on you.

Original Source: ~~bubblingbrownsugar95~~.

sugarandthecity

This is was so fucking perfect. 💕

sugarbabyindevelopment

Amen and reblogging again

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If he’s worth $50M and he’s only giving you a $6K/month allowance, you’re being a fool. If he’s generous and adores you, you can ask for $30K/month and it would still be reasonable.

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Apps I use to “online only” Sugar Date

Facebook

Twitter

Tinder

Bumble

Match.com

Online only is for the sugar daddy who wants a long distance relationship. They are older men who seek affection and do not want to sit and beg a cam girl to go into private chat.

Its a girlfriend experience. My rule is any POT who isn’t willing to send you at least $75 -$100 in the first 3-5 days is not a long distance sugar daddy mindset. Trust me men will PAY anything to CAM girls so never think its crazy to think a guy would pay you directly for less work lol MEN WANT REAL CARE. Be the girlfriend they need when they are lonely

Use Snapchat and your camera on your phone to keep them wanting you, daily… its really that easy. You do not have to be super freaky but yes treat them like you are an on call cam girl and they are your regular viewer

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Platonic Sugar Baby Guide Step 2

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There are several achetypes of men who are fit to become your platonic daddy. These are my experience:

The rejected/low status man:

Typical traits include an eagerness to be accepted. Usually has almost no boundaries and can easily be manipulated and be pushed over. Naive + poor social competence. It is possible to use the ‘I’m a virgin’ approach. Shower this man with your presence and reliability to sustain a platonic relationship.

The low sexdrive man:

Very uncommon. Low testosterone levels indicate low sex drive. Look for men with feminine features such as a weak jaw/chin, breast tissue, low muscle mass etc. Least to say these men do not aggressively search for women to fuck so you probably wont find one of these on a website.

The submissive man:

Various cultures & family dynamics have different standards how men should be.

Example: When asking a man about his family, It is good if his mother is dominant, then he have learnt to look up to a woman, and will continue doing so. It is very important that the mother is a good person, so It will mean the man probably also takes after. An evil person only wants to use you for his own good.

For instance, my first platonic daddy which I had for 2.5 years had a mother that was head of the whole family, but her work was being a caretaker of special needs children. Summary: powerful, but also had empathy and treated me wonderfully! My platonic daddy spoiled me as a princess and respected my integrity so much we never had sex!

Archetypes to avoid

The fucked up man:

Umberella term for all kinds of troubles; drug abuse, mental illness, pathologic lying, sex addicts, serial cheaters etc. Usually this man’s views of relationships is so fucked up that he cant combine love and sex, that’s why he might fall into the platonic daddy category. This type will bring you down if you let these kinds of people influence your thinking. Avoid the unhappy and unlucky.

Btw, this list is in no way completed. I’d like my fellow babies to share your types of men that are compatible, and which types to avoid ! <3 lets spread the knowledge!

love, elegantsb

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the older i get the more it’s clear that being smart doesn’t get you very far if you’re not disciplined. there are tons of people who are brilliant but not disciplined. they have amazing ideas but cannot finish a project. they are creative and innovative but cannot execute a plan. i see how important it is to set deadlines and boundaries for myself an to be disciplined.

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I’m a Sex Worker and…

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* I don’t use the money that I receive to buy drugs.

* I’m college and university educated.

* I don’t have a troubled past or “Daddy issues”.

* I don’t use the money that I receive to buy alcohol.

* I will sleep with your dad, brother, boyfriend, husband and possibly your grandpa, for the right price and at my discretion.

* I do have a vanilla career that is respected by society.

* I enjoy Sex Work and participate in the lifestyle of my own free will.

* I do not have a pimp.

* I have never been arrested for anything.

* I have never had a sexually transmitted disease.

* I’m not easy, needy or seedy.

* I respect other Sex Workers choices, liberations and limitations, as equally as I respect my own.

* I do use the money that I receive from Sex Work to invest my future.

* I have two homes, 3 vehicles, significant savings and zero debt, all thanks to the fun that I get to have as a Sex Worker.

* I always practice “safe sex” and get regular sexual health check ups.

* I probably blend into society better than you.

* I make my own rules, set my own prices and create a schedule that works for me and my moods.

* The only regret that I have regarding becoming a Sex Worker, is that I wish I had started sooner.

* Etc, etc.

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Freestyling Gone Wrong

***11/21 UPDATE: Someone on here was kind enough to inform me that the following isn’t actually considered “freestyling”… but I also didn’t waste my time making this post for y’all just to delete it. So I said what I said. Take what you can from it lol***

Okay babies, story tiiiiiime! Here’s how I totally botched one of my first freestyling experiences lol. I’m going to try to be more transparent and share more of my experiences with you all going forward. Hopefully someone out there can learn from my mistakes…

So I was on vaycay in Bay Area with a friend and if you didn’t know, Bay Area is WHALE DADDIES CENTRAL! I decided to download tinder out of boredom one day during our trip because I remembered reading a thread on here about using Tinder to make freestyling easier and decided to give it a go. I adjusted my search settings to old as fuck (well not literally lol) and began swiping away! I was shocked at how fast I began pairing with POTs.

Any who, after weeding through some freaks and geeks, I gave a lucky few my google voice number. One of the guys I gave my number turned out to be a mega creep. I made a rookie mistake and told him the name of the hotel I was staying at and I KID YOU NOT YALL, this man legit showed up to my hotel and waited in the lobby for me like a stalker. Luckily I had my friend with me so we both pretended to not know who he was….

It wasn’t all bad luck though.. I set up a date that very day with another one of my POTs from Tinder after a 5-10ish minute phone call with him (we’ll call him Dom). Dom wanted to talk on the phone to make sure I was who I said I was…and as far as he was concerned, I was. He set reservations for us at one of the oldest and best seafood restaurants in SFO and we met that evening. I took my friend to the restaurant with me, made sure she sat somewhere low key but within view and paid for her food so she could look out for me.

The restaurant was nice and our seats were secluded from everyone else’s. We even had curtains to close our booth away from the public eye. Physically, Dom was about as okay as okay got but I know his money was beautiful. He worked as a Pharmacist he told me.

We started off with a bottle of wine and oysters before we began the whole “get to know you” game. Luckily for me, I had rehearsed my faux life story down to the T. He began to loosen up once we started talking… he even suggested that we close the booth’s curtains at one point to make out. He then offered me drugs (weed, acid, shrooms, molly…. his literal words were “I have anything you can think of”)—um, no thanks.

During dinner Dom kept telling me that he wanted to take me to the top of the highest building in SFO…followed by “and maybe if you like it, we can finish our night off at my loft.” LOL.

I wasn’t sure what he thought was going on between us at that point… but I regretted not doing what I did next BEFORE even going on that date. I explained to him the kind of arrangement I was seeking and his persona changed COMPLETELY. You guys this man really took offense that my hot young ebony ass didn’t want to entertain his old ass just for the hell of it.. he really thought I was interested in him on some let’s date and get married shit… he was so offended that he literally told our waiter to cancel the rest of our order LMAO.

I regret wasting his time and mine by not talking business before the first date, but you live and you learn!

So if you’re going to use Tinder or any other app to help you freestyle as a matter of fact, make sure you and whoever’s on the same page prior to meeting them. Moral of the story is, some of these men are looking for life companions and you don’t want to be the dummy that goes on a date with a man looking for his wife when all you’re looking for is a check..

…..oh well though. Dom was an asshole to our waiters as I recall. I probably dodged a bullet.