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I’ve always differentiated whale daddies as

Real Estate/Property moguls
Hedge Fund Managers/Asset Managers/Investment managers, Managers in fucking general lol
Investors, shareholders
Chief executives, partners, chairmen and directors
Restaurateurs
Engineers/ Tech Tycoons
Athletes
Musicians
Fashion designers/ Artists/ Gallery Owners/ Retail shop owners
Entrepreneurs and established business men
Lawyers & Doctors
African & Arab tycoons
Aristocracy/royalty
Politicians
Actors/directors/film stars ( Show Biz)
Illegal ( Drug Lords, Mafias etc,Majorie Harvey notoriously dated two drug dealers before marrying Steve- I ain’t encouraging nothin )

Types of ladies

Models/ Actresses/Beauty queens/Presenters

Lingerie, print or runway models(or women who look like them) can often be the desire of wealthy men. There’s something inherently ego-boosting to some about people able to say they’ve dated a woman in a magazine or on TV! Almost as if they’ve captured a rare pokemon or something. I guess it is how some girls get delighted when they say “I’m dating a whale”.
Business women

I love the phrase “business women” because it is such a multifaceted term. Anyone can be one whether you are a makeup artist to the stars or venture capitalists. Business women are able to attend exclusive events and conferences!

Society women/ IT girls

Women in the right circles who are able to enter into exclusive events, galas, resorts, leisure activities, country clubs and elite parties.

Bombshells/ Trophies

The Evelyn Lozada types, who have made a career out of hustling & gold digging. They could also be society women depending on their social stature. They sometimes accompany one type of guy in a single industry for instance only athletes or mostly men in oil.

Students

Knowing that you’re working towards something is important to some daddies.

Jet Setters

Ladies who have made it their business to be at all the hot spots at all times. They are in Ibiza during the summer, London during the fall and St Barth’s for Christmas. They are always in the baddest clubs & high class venues.

Career women

Career women whether they be air hostesses,strippers or junior analysts can often encounter potential.

Places to meet

Online
We all know about SA, Sugardaddie, Tinder & Luxe
This is probably the fastest way to meet daddies, whether it is efficient, it depends on the ladies in question. I love the online method because of the simplicity, you aren’t having to pay $30 admission fee to go to a gallery to get your hustle on!
Social media can be a good option if you’re smart and saavy. Instagram & snapchat has become a revolutionary way to meet people you otherwise could not!
Bars and Restaurants
Most cities have places of recreating designated for wealthy crowds. In some bars, it is impossible to not see someone famous or excruciatingly wealthy.
Escorting/ Sex work
A handful of wealthy men use our services.
International
We all know about "going to Dubai”. The old age way of securing a Middle Eastern daddy or wealthy clients. Lagos, LA & the French Riviera are places where women congregate to find the daddies of all daddies!
Cocktail Parties
Work
Working where these men work or working for them can be a dangerous game. But makes sense logically because many whales are workaholics!
Clubs
I used to feel such places where the haunt of new money rich kids & it is. But everyone wants to shake it down everynow & again so clubs are a fun option especially if you’re a regular.
Galleries, Museums & auctions
Wealthy people congregate these places like a church!
Trade shows
This is the haunt of executives & business men.
Gyms
Charity balls & galas
Another place where you are guaranteed to find wealthy men.
Memberships
“ everything from Country Clubs to Yacht Clubs or Hobby Clubs or art clubs”
Sports
“sailing, horseback riding, snow-skiing, tennis, and golf”are often associated with wealthy people. You do not have to play, you can merely attend.
White Tie & Black Tie events

Opera/Theater/Perfoming arts
The best tickets are usually boxes, center orchestra, and grand tier—for opening nights, only—if you want to mix and mingle among the Rich. The Rich want to see the first performance. It is new and fresh. That is also when the critics will be there, as well as any social photographers for the media society photographs - Ginie Sayles

* This is all very simplistic, but it makes it so much easier to delve into the psyche of our targets. See Meet the Rich by Gine Sayles for more :)

“For example, tech savy dude: loves math and computers, he’s an engineer. I start by breaking down the personality, ex: he likes math solving a problem makes him tick.
So i play mysterious and in control. “ - Vanitythynameiswoman

paramourprincess-deactivated201

paramourprincess paramourprincess

Stay At Home Girlfriend

I went to Marshall’s/HomeGoods and racked up a bill over $1k. I bought lots of “Theory” clothing. (side note: Theory is a very nice designer brand for sugar babies. Classic. Simple. Classy. Timeless.)

The young cashier was like

Him: Wow what’s your job, if you don’t mind me asking? How can you afford all this?

*Rude*

Me: I actually just quit my job. Today is my first day off!

Him: What’re you going to do now?

Me: Stay at home girlfriend.

I love my life.

Side note #1: Sugaring (and escorting) has made me realize- I don’t hate all men. Just all men under 50. My sugar daddy treats me like a queen. Yesterday I was like “I’m such a bad cook, I really need to learn!” Later that day he’s like “baby, I signed us up for this cooking class in Sonoma”

Younger men do NOT deserve me.

Side note #2: I went to see a therapist for the first time today. She told me one of her clients married the escort he was seeing. Inspiring AF.

withlovefromaudrey

Sugar bowl facts

barbieprive

After couple of years sugaring this is what I’ve observed regarding SD/SB sites

-what I’ve recently read and which is 100% accurate, anyone worth of knowing won’t be in such sites. Full. Stop.

-most of men that have profiles are in best case upper middle class guys. You won’t find a multimillionaire sitting behind his computer chasing girls online. Would you? I wouldn’t. Reality is all of true rich men have access to upscale bars, clubs, restaurants, country clubs, lounges where they can meet dozens of beautiful women, DAILY. In worst case he will book a girl trough established agency (his assistant will) if he is more of an introvert or has no time for socializing.

-top income on these site is NOT above 200k after taxes. And majority of those men are MARRIED, which means his wife has access to his cards/accounts and has knowledge of his financial behavior, do you think she won’t be suspicious if all of a sudden large amounts start missing from his account? Of course she will. Other are divorced with couple of kids, which means ALIMONY. So don’t expect mind blowing amounts spent on you.

-if he offers out of the blue 10k + apartment + car, most likely it is a SCAM. In order a man to be eligible for such spending on someone else his income should be at least 700-800k after taxes. In average, a man won’t spend more than 20% of his income on you. How do y'all think a man who earns 200k-300k will just drop half of his money on you? He also has daily/monthly/yearly expenses of his own. He’ll just go broke because of you? NO. Be realistic.

-there probably is one who is able to spend such amounts on you as mentioned above but finding him on these sites would be a pure luck. Like jackpot once in a blue moon.

-if he doesn’t discuss your allowance and what exactly he can offer in first few messages, he is probably not a legitimate SD, or just a Splenda most likely salt. A real SD knows the game. Don’t fall for that “make me a proposal/offer”. That’s BS.

-if he only offers to communicate via Skype he is almost sure a SCAM. Never settle for this type of communication, either he can video call via Viber or FaceTime. Say you don’t use Skype. Not negotiable.

-if he isn’t ready to provide his photos in first few exchanged texts, DROP him. There is no valid excuse for this. Unless he is on Forbes 100. Or running a Fortune 500 company. Which isn’t close to impossible. Always choose video call over exchanging photos. (What i recently witnessed was a man who sent me photos of a dead US businessman, he probably thought if we are from Europe I won’t know this) -luckily there is google image search

-ALWAYS and I repeat always try with google reverse image search. Also look up his number.

-if he refuses to tell you his full name there is a good reason behind it, a BAD one. Leave him.

-Under NO circumstances negotiate the sexual part of an arrangement, he exactly knows what he will be getting. You get the “dos and donts ” question, block him, real SD never asks such questions over the phone.

-make sure you discuss about his stated budget. Ask if those are his spending habits or he would be actually willing to spend that on you. Does that include only your allowance or it includes all of the monthly expenses he would have regarding you (e.g. Trips, dinners, gifts, shopping sprees etc)

-don’t be shy to ask anything you want to know prior to your meet, if you have any doubts or unclear stuff, ASK.

-if you are traveling/flying out to meet him make sure all of your transportation/flight tickets/hotel room is paid in full, IN ADVANCE, with email confirmation of the receipts which are NON REFUNDABLE. He can always cancel your hotel booking for example.

-if he asks you to fly out but to buy your own tickets and he’ll reimburse you when you meet, NEVER do this!!! Real SD would never ever propose such situation, or he will send you money prior to your meet so you can purchase it, if he doesn’t want it to be shown on his credit card.

-always bring your own money to a pot date, no matter if it’s just a coffee date or dinner or flying over to other city/country. Remember, he can walk out on you any time and leave you out to dry. Imagine if you don’t like him really and need to for example take another room, take your ticket earlier, take a taxi home etc, possibilities are endless. Make sure you are SAFE regarding funds.

-NEVER send more than 4 photos (2 showing your face and upper body and two showing your body from different angles/poses) any of these men asking for more are pic collectors. Whenever you can choose a video call over exchanging photos.

-if you meet him and he looks different than his photos LEAVE immediately. EVACUATE. Code RED. You think he is providing something substantial if he can’t even provide a proper photo of himself? NO.

-Never ever agree to unprotected sex. No excuses are valid enough. Even though you are in a long term arrangement he probably is seeing other women too. Unless he’ll provide you a STD check (HIV, HPV, HEP a, b, c too) not older than 48h prior to your rendezvous, from a clinic you personally chose. Medical checks, reports can be forged.

-make sure that you first get your end before giving him his part of the bargain. FIRST THE MONEY THEN THE HONEY. No peep shows, no trial periods, no compatibility checks. You see a meal you never tried in a restaurant, decided to order from the menu, you didn’t really like it, yet you still have to pay for it? YES.

-Do not fall for the first man that texts you, sugaring REQUIRES patience and practice.

-Do not settle for exclusivity unless all of your monthly expenses are fully covered plus there is spending money left, and enough for at least a month if he drops you out of the blue. Don’t think you will ever be his one and only.

-When he says NO DRAMA in his profile text that means no drama from you, not from him. No PROs or ESCORTs means he can’t afford one or he can’t afford to be screened, because he has something to hide - something BAD.

-if he is not able to meet in few days after your initial conversation he is most likely a TIME WASTER, or if he books you a ticket and not confirm two three days before the actual meet do not go, unless you want a free trip and have an interest of your own visiting that place.

-if he offers less than a 5* hotel accommodation, drop that cheap ass, he probably is just a SALT.

-when he states most important things for him are connection and affection he has no intention of compensating for your time.

-there is no UPPER age limits for being a sugar baby, you think he wouldn’t date J-Lo ? Yes he would but he can’t afford it! When guy says he prefers very young girls it’s because he knows they are easier to trick and have lack of experience.

-REMEMBER: if something is too good to be true it’s because it usually is. Don’t fall for words, SEEING is BELIEVING.

-if he somehow gets uncomfortable when getting a bill in the restaurant or makes comments on prices or starts making a face, never see him again, no real SD will make a comment over couple of bucks. If possible, check how much he tipped the waiter.

-if he says along the way he isn’t into luxury and prefers something more humble/down to earth, leave that mofo, YOU ARE a LUXURY.

-if he is too demanding compared to what he is providing, he is actually using you, do not fall for that (ask for way to many photos/text exchange etc)

Always keep this small reminder in your head.

Happy sugaring!!!

Source: barbieprive

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aidashakur

Stop disturbing women you’re not ready for

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sugarcoatedpeach

My Ideal Man

(Which I’m working on manifesting)

Makes at least $3 million a year.
Preferably has family money/inheritance as well.
Takes me on at least 4 luxurious trips a year.
Is 100% in love with me
Gives me practically everything I want and need.
Supports and aids me in my career ambitions.
Gives me complete access to his credit and debit cards.
Is attractive to me (no matter what his age)

This is pretty much it lol. I feel like that’s honestly not asking a lot…

What do y’all want in your future mate?

Source: sugarcoatedpeach

sugar-babyandspice

Miami Miami Miami

sugar-babyandspice

Hey guys!

I’ve had such a busy trip that I haven’t been able to update you all as frequently as I’d like.

If you remember, I recently met a man that I refer to as $. I invited him on this trip back home for Thanksgiving just to see what he was about and boy when I tell you he showed out… HE SHOWED ALL THE WAY OUT.

First and foremost, this trip was a trip where all of my best friends from all over would meet each other (my friend from my current location, my friend from college, and my friends from back home). I had to make sure I got these ladies right! If I was going to eat, so were they. I had $ purchase my friend from college’s ticket and everyone else was good. I also had him book us all a suite at the Fontainebleau(with accompanying massages & facials at the spa). He gave me his credit card info to make sure I got all of the reservations done. I even went ahead and booked my mother a spa treatment.

Fast forward to day 1:Wednesday night. I’m already in town with my friend from my current location and my friend from back home. We meet $ and my friend from college at the hotel. The suite I booked was $800 a night. In all actuality, it wasn’t that phenomenal but was still nice. Upon arrival, we had room service(4 salmon dinners, cocktails for everyone, champagne, and chocolate covered strawberries). After we ate and drank, we got ready for the club. He paid for everyone’s entry and drinks the entire night. Day 2: Thursday was obviously Thanksgiving so I packed up all of my friends and we ubered to my mother’s for dinner. While we were ubering, we heard on the radio that the City Girls were going to be having an album release party and we were stokeddddd. I sent $ a text and asked if we could book a table and he said “of course, anything for you” so I booked a $3000 table. We get back to the hotel after dinner with my mother and $ tells us a story of how he met the owner of the Lamborghini dealer Miami and opened up the showroom for a personal visit for him. $ ended up purchasing a second Lambo that same day! It will be shipped to him up north in a week. I was excited to hear that because I just knew there would be no way he would be able to tell me he can’t afford to take me to the Bal Harbour shops the next day… After ordering more room service, we head to the club and it’s litttt. We’re ordering hookah, bottles of the most expensive Moet, tequila, and everything else. Not only that, we get to dance up close and personal with Yung Miami! At the end of the night, we racked up a nice $6000 tab which he paid with no hesitation! It was awesome. Day 3:Friday we all head to the Lapis spa at the Fontainebleau for facials and 100 minute hot stone massages. I also invited my mother! $ made sure everyone was very well taken care of. After leaving the spa, we head to the Bal Harbor shops(baller mall) because I wanted $ to know the type of woman he was dealing with. He needed something to wear to dinner at my fave restaurant(Prime 112) and since I style people for a living, I had no problem going to Neiman’s to style him. I’ve had my eyes on a cute little YSL so I made sure that was on my list. He purchased that, a pair of YSL tributes, a pair of Loubs, and shoes and purses for each one of my friends(They got LV neverfulls, Gucci fur loafers, and slides). Everybody was ready for dinner at Prime! It was beautiful. I invited my mom to dinner as well. Now this restaurant is my favorite in Miami and also the #1 baller spot(for those that freestyle). While we were there, we saw Clive Davis and Fat Joe! It was pretty epic because I’ve eaten there 1000 times and never saw a celebrity! It was a great way to close out the trip. My friend from college and $ left the next morning and that was all she wrote…

Now $ is in love with me! Wants to marry and have kids even though he knows about M and the business I own. I guess we’ll keep seeing how it goes…

p.s. I sent him a picture of the Rolex I want for Christmas and he said he’s DOWN. Beautiful 😍

See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

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